Embracing Lament: Lessons from Psalm 61
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Rediscovering a Lost Art
In our fast-paced, solution-driven society, the ancient practice of lament is often overlooked. Yet, it's in the quiet, reflective spaces of lament where we find deep healing and connection with God. Psalm 61, penned by King David, serves as a profound guide for rediscovering this lost art.
The Heart of Lament in Psalm 61
David's earnest plea in Psalm 61 is not just a cry of despair but a journey towards hope. He begins, "Hear my cry, O God; listen to my prayer." This opening line is a lesson in itself—acknowledging our vulnerability and reaching out to God in our distress.
Lament as a Space for Honesty and Trust
Lament allows us to bring our most authentic selves before God. Henri Nouwen beautifully articulates this: "The cry of 'Why, God?' is an expression of trust, not distrust." In Psalm 61, David's plea to be led "to the rock that is higher than I" is a raw, honest expression of dependence on God.
The Variety of Lament
Dallas Willard once said, "The path to spiritual maturity is to allow oneself to be with the Lord in all of one's experiences." Psalm 61 showcases this, as David's lament ranges from a cry for help to a declaration of trust. This mirrors our life’s varied experiences and emotions, inviting us to bring everything to God.
Lament as a Community Practice
Lament isn't just a personal practice; it's communal. As Richard Foster notes, "In community, we learn to carry each other's burdens and share each other's sorrows." Psalm 61's journey from personal lament to a communal worship (“Then I will ever sing praise to your name”) reminds us that our sorrows and joys are shared in the body of Christ.
The Power of Persistent Prayer
In the spirit of Tim Mackie's emphasis on biblical storytelling, Psalm 61 tells a story of persistent prayer. It encourages us not to shy away from repeatedly bringing our concerns before God, trusting in His unfailing love and faithfulness.
Lament Leading to Praise
A remarkable aspect of lament, as highlighted in Psalm 61, is its trajectory towards praise and thanksgiving. As John Mark Comer observes, “In the economy of God, sorrow is a pathway to joy.” David's vow to fulfill his vows and sing praises reflects a heart moving from pain to praise, teaching us that lament can lead to a deeper appreciation of God's goodness.
Practical Steps for Embracing Lament
Make Space for Honesty: Create a regular time and space where you can be honest before God about your feelings and situations.
Use the Psalms as a Guide: Start with Psalm 61 and use it as a template for expressing your own laments to God.
Share in Community: Find a small group or a trusted friend with whom you can share your laments and support each other.
Persist in Prayer: Keep bringing your concerns to God, knowing that He hears and cares.
Look for the Turn to Praise: As you lament, stay attentive to how God might be leading you towards a heart of gratitude.
Lament, as seen in Psalm 61, is a vital spiritual practice that brings us closer to God and each other. It’s in our honest, vulnerable cries that we discover the depth of God's love and care. Let's embrace lament, allowing it to transform our pain into a deeper understanding and celebration of God's presence in our lives.
"We must lay before Him what is in us; not what ought to be in us." - C.S. Lewis
Next Steps: Begin by meditating on Psalm 61 this week, and share your reflections with a friend or in your community group. Let this be the starting point of a journey into the healing practice of lament.
Source material was this YouVersion plan: 'Getting Honest With God: Learn the 4 Practices of Lament'.